The Grit

The Real Grit

  • LR: 90+8 minute winner

    This is why I love the game. I met up with the Ukrainian girl again and we actually did a mini day trip to somewhere I was going anyway, I invited her along and she accepted. It was her last day in town before she left so I knew it was basically now or never.…

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  • Enjoying the process

    I left the community and relentless shagging behind me because of burn out. I remember waking up one day feeling like a complete shell of myself. I probably had a rotation of around 10 girls I was juggling, plus banging new chicks and the pure logistics alone was ridiculous. God knows how I had time…

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  • From Espana with love

    I am fucking loving life at the moment. I’m back in the groove. I’m 33 and definitely feel like I’m hitting my prime. I’m in the best shape of my life and just about to quit my job to take around year off to just do what I want to do. I am sitting in…

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  • Update

    So I am not dead, I am back and have a lot more time on my hands to get back to blogging and helping guys get to where they need to be. Will this all be perfect, probably not but I’ve experienced so much in life that it would really be a shame not to…

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  • Men aren’t good enough for women anymore

    Here we go. This is the post. I haven’t actually written a title for this post yet because I know it’s going to be a long one and we’ll see where it ends up. But I can tell you one thing for sure, I’m not going to hold back. I want to start by saying…

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  • Respect

    I am currently in a relationship and my girlfriend of 9 months said something to me early on in our relationship, which initially set an alarm bell off but then I quickly realised, it wasn’t a bad thing. She has had a couple of relationships before and she openly said to me that I was…

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  • Damn the winter sucks

    My nose is blocked and getting up for the gym in the morning has been a real struggle lately but I’ve made it. I just had a short thought on why guys fail so much with women, it’s not that they don’t want to put in the work, they know that it will take a…

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  • Core Principle 6: Understand the value of freedom

    There are many ways you can interpret the word freedom. It means different things to people at various stages of their lives. Let’s start basic. I mean really basic, as a man you ought to be able to live a free life. That means at a bare minimum you should be able to live by…

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  • I am back

    I chose to take a break from this site but kept it up and running for guys to learn from. But I can announce for the foreseeable future, I am back. I have been carrying the torch in my personal life and still living by my principals. This was always just a passion project for…

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  • How you can be more assertive with women in 2 weeks.

    Short one today. Just some quick tips/exercises on how you can be more assertive with women. It’s important to be assertive because women respond positively to strength, it’s attractive to them and chances are you are not being assertive enough. Most of you know the theory but I know you don’t put it into practice…

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